I think I know what spiritual success looks like. It is knowing what God says and doing it. It’s not making stupid decisions completely contrary to sound reason. It’s not letting anything get a hold on my judgment, whether that be habits, desires or choices.
That sounds pretty clear, doesn’t it? So, since I think I know all that, I have to confess that when I see a believer live contrary to all that, I struggle with my thoughts towards him/her. I don’t keep my verse for the year, which is Phil 4:8 to think on whatsoever things are true, honest, just, pure, lovely of good report, virtuous and praiseworthy. OK, I confess. I judge them. And after that, I ignore them.
Are you like me? Are there some brothers or sisters in Christ you’ve written off as hopeless after watching their bad choices, decisions and actions?
Wow. Not for the believer I’m judging, but for me and whoever relates to me. If we want to be a spiritual success, there are two perspectives we need to grasp:
First, Who art thou that judgest another man’s servant? to his own master he standeth or falleth. Yea, he shall be holden up: for God is able to make him stand. (Rom. 14:4) Give God credit. He can and will do anything for His children. One of His names is the Good Shepherd who leads His sheep. And He’s good at it. God can do anything. He can and will move heaven and earth to hold up His children. He’s done it for me. There was a time when I was one of those people I judge. I have a testimony that God held me up. He delivered me. He will do it for the believer I’m writing off.
Second, rather than judge this oblivious, weak and falling brother or sister, God tells me to warn them that are unruly, comfort the feebleminded, support the weak, be patient toward all men. (1 Thes. 5:14) That is love, and that is God’s supreme command. Love Him and love others—not in thought, but in deed and in truth. Love in action.
I have to ask who the real loser is. My unloving attitude towards those I have my eagle eye on shows that now I am the one who needs a rescue from God.
Here’s a benediction for us all, the “judgees” and the judgers (who recognize the error of their way). Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy. (Jude 1:24)
Jody