We are on to another characteristic of David, which will become evident. One time, while David and his men were out fighting battles, some enemies came into their village and took their wives and sons and daughters and burned the village. When David and his army came back, they found their families were missing and their village burnt down.
David, whom we have seen was a wise man, prayed. And David enquired at the LORD, saying, Shall I pursue after this troop? shall I overtake them? And he answered him, Pursue: for thou shalt surely overtake them, and without fail recover all. (9) So David went, he and the six hundred men that were with him, and came to the brook Besor, where those that were left behind stayed. (10) But David pursued, he and four hundred men: for two hundred abode behind, which were so faint that they could not go over the brook Besor. 1 Sam. 30:8-10
Here's the picture. He had an army of 600, but only 400 went with him to chase the enemy because 200 of them were too exhausted to help out. How many spiritual leaders can you think of who would likely grant grace to the 200 who were feeling wimpy? How many of the 400 who went with David do you think were compassionate toward those 200 faint men?
Reading 1 Sam 30:16-19, you find that David and the 400 found the Amalekite enemies eating, drinking and dancing as they celebrated their great "victory." David and his army whipped them and got all their families and all their possessions back, plus more.
When David and the army returned home with everyone and everything that had been stolen, those 400 men thought they should get to keep everything, and the 200 who didn’t go shouldn’t get anything, because they didn’t help.
I don't know if there's just one word that summarizes how David handled this matter. We already know he was wise. Here he shows another characteristic. Let's look at this together and choose how we will describe this.
1Sa 30:21-24 And David came to the two hundred men, which were so faint that they could not follow David, whom they had made also to abide at the brook Besor: and they went forth to meet David, and to meet the people that were with him: and when David came near to the people, he saluted them. (22) Then answered all the wicked men and men of Belial, of those that went with David, and said, Because they went not with us, we will not give them ought of the spoil that we have recovered, save to every man his wife and his children, that they may lead them away, and depart. (23) Then said David, Ye shall not do so, my brethren, with that which the LORD hath given us, who hath preserved us, and delivered the company that came against us into our hand. (24) For who will hearken unto you in this matter? but as his part is that goeth down to the battle, so shall his part be that tarrieth by the stuff: they shall part alike.
I want to use the word fair, because obviously he was. Unselfish and uncondemning are other appropriate words. How could he be this way? Because of his upward focus. The 400 looked at the 200 with disdain. David looked to God. Do you see how he viewed the situation? …Ye shall not do so, my brethren, with that which the LORD hath given us, who hath preserved us, and delivered the company that came against us into our hand. The 400 thought they were the heroes. David knew that God was the hero.
It's easy to fall prey to a condemning attitude. From today's verses, I see that a condemning attitude comes from a failure to see that God is in control. Really, others can mess up, and it doesn't mess up God's determined plan. Remember, David had prayed first, and God told him Pursue: for thou shalt surely overtake them, and without fail recover all.
Where there's a promise from God, there's no need to condemn other people. God is going to come through.
1Pe 3:8-9 Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous: (9) Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye should inherit a blessing. -- Let it go.